The Day After Civil Rights
The Day After Civil Rights
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Kenneth Jernigan
The
Day After Civil Rights
An Address Delivered by
Kenneth Jernigan
At the Banquet of the Annual Convention
Of the National Federation of the Blind
New Orleans, Louisiana, July 4, 1997
It has been said that all knowledge consists
of definition and classification, and even definition may be just another way
of classifying. History, for example, can be classified (or divided) into ancient,
medieval, and modern; secular and ecclesiastical; American, English, European,
African, Asian, and Latin American; political, economic, and social. And there
are hundreds of other ways of doing it.
As to our history, the history of the
organized blind movement, I classify or divide it into four stages. Of course,
I could add a fifth--the centuries and eons before our founding in 1940. But
I prefer to think of that time as the dark ages, the pre-history before hope
and enlightenment.
When the National Federation of the Blind
came into being almost six decades ago, our problem was simple. It was to find
enough food to keep body and soul together--not for all of us, of course, but
for many. If you are hungry, it is hard to think about anything else. And the
blind were hungry.
And then we moved to a second stage,
the attempt to find jobs. Call it rehabilitation. It wasn't that poverty had
been eliminated, but it had been so reduced that we could now begin to think
about something else, about jobs, about how to earn and not just be given. Naturally
the desire for jobs was there from the beginning, but it now moved to the center
of the stage. This was in the late '50's, the '60's, and the '70's. We wanted
jobs--and we found them. Not always according to our capacity and not always
with equal pay--but jobs.
And then we moved to a third stage. Call
it civil rights. After a person has satisfied hunger and found a job, there
is still something else--the search for self-esteem and equal treatment--the
yearning to belong and participate--to be part of the family and the broader
community. And for us, as for other minorities, there was only one way to get
there--confrontation. The status quo always fights change.
Many people think that civil rights and
integration are the same thing. They aren't. The concept of civil rights precedes
integration and is a necessary precursor to it. As used in the late twentieth
century, the term civil rights (although some will deny it) always means force--an
in-your-face attitude by the minority, laws that make somebody do this or that,
picketing, marches in the street, court cases, and much else. And we have done
those things, all of them. We had to.
But there comes a day after civil rights.
There must. Otherwise, the first three stages (satisfying hunger, finding jobs,
and getting civil rights) have been in vain. The laws, the court cases, the
confrontations, the jobs, and even the satisfying of hunger can never be our
prime focus. They are preliminary. It is not that they disappear. Rather it
is that they become a foundation on which to build.
Legislation cannot create understanding.
Confrontation cannot create good will, mutual acceptance, and respect. For that
matter, legislation and confrontation cannot create self-esteem. The search
for self-esteem begins in the period of civil rights, but the realization of
self-esteem must wait for the day after civil rights.
It will be easy for me to be misunderstood,
so I want to make something very clear. We have not forgotten how to fight,
and we will do it when we have to. We must not become slack or cease to be vigilant,
and we won't. But we have now made enough progress to move to the next stage
on the road to freedom. I call it the day after civil rights.
If a minority lives too long in an armed
camp atmosphere, that minority becomes poisoned and corroded. We must move beyond
minority mentality and victim thinking. This will be difficult--especially in
today's society, where hate and suspicion are a rising tide and where members
of minorities are encouraged and expected to feel bitterness and alienation
and members of the majority are encouraged and expected to feel guilt and preoccupation
with the past. Yes, it will be hard to do what I am suggesting, but we must
do it. We must be willing to give to others as much as we want others to give
to us, and we must do it with good will and civility. We must make the hard
choices and take the long view.
Let me be specific. If a blind person
tries to exploit blindness to get an advantage, or tries to use blindness as
an excuse for failure or bad behavior, we must not defend that blind person
but must stand with the sighted person that the blind person is trying to victimize.
This will not be easy; it will not always be politically correct; and it will
frequently bring criticism, not only from those blind persons who claim to want
equality but are not willing to earn it, but also from some of the sighted as
well. But we must do it anyway. If we want equal treatment and true integration,
we must act like equals and not hide behind minority status. Yes, blind people
are our brothers and sisters, but so are the sighted. Unless we are willing
to have it that way, we neither deserve nor truly want what we have always claimed
as a birthright.
That birthright, equal responsibility
as well as equal rights, is the very essence of the NFB's philosophy. It is
what we set out to get in 1940; it is what we have fought for every step of
the way; it is what we are now close to achieving; and it is what we are absolutely
determined to have. Equal rights--equal responsibility.
We are capable of working with the sighted,
playing with the sighted, and living with the sighted; and we are capable of
doing it on terms of complete equality. Likewise, the sighted are capable of
doing the same with us--and for the most part I think they want to. What we
need is not confrontation but understanding, an understanding that runs both
ways. This means an ongoing process of communication and public education.
It is for that reason that in 1991 we
introduced the Kernel Books. As I said at last year's convention, what we have
done in writing, publishing, and distributing these books is nothing short of
revolutionary. More than three million of them are now in circulation, and the
difference they have made in public attitudes about blindness would be hard
to exaggerate.
This year, following our usual pattern,
we are issuing two more Kernel Books. Book twelve, Like Cats and Dogs,
is available now; and book thirteen, Wall-to-Wall Thanksgiving, will
come this fall. There are, of course, many other elements in our educational
program, but the Kernel Books are the centerpiece of it. As you hear the introductions
to the two 1997 books and excerpts from the articles I wrote for them, keep
in mind the context and the reason for publishing them. They must carry a message
without being so preachy that nobody will read them, and they must be entertaining
without blurring the purpose:
Like Cats and Dogs
Editor's Introduction
In the early and mid 1930's, when I was
a boy in grade school, I dearly loved to read poetry--or, more properly speaking,
have poetry read to me. And my teachers often obliged. One of my favorites was
a poem by Eugene Field called the "Gingham Dog and the Calico Cat."
Although it will never be a classic, I liked it. It begins like this:
The gingham dog and the calico cat
Side by side on the table sat;
'Twas half-past twelve,
and (what do you think!)
Nor one nor t'other had slept a wink!
The poem goes on to tell how the cat
and dog had anawful fight and concludes by giving the outcome:
"But the truth about the cat and
pup
Is this: they ate each other up!
Thus we come to the title of this book,
Like Cats and Dogs. Maybe I chose it because I once had a dog that I
dearly loved, or because I currently have some adorable kittens--or maybe because
of the well-known saying about people fighting like cats and dogs. Regardless
of the reason, the title is chosen, and we come to a question:
Exactly how do cats and dogs behave toward
each other?
If they don't understand each other,
they fight "like cats and dogs." But if they have the opportunity
to get acquainted, they can live in harmony and become good friends.
As it is with cats and dogs, so it is
with the blind and their sighted neighbors. There can either be harmony and
friendship or misunderstanding and frustration. This little volume (the twelfth
in the Kernel Book series) is meant to promote understanding, the ultimate framework
of all true friendship and mutual respect.
As with past Kernel Books, the stories
here are real-life experiences, told by the blind persons who lived them. The
one exception is the article by Theresa House, who is the sighted wife of a
blind man. Her parents feared that a blind person could never be an adequate
husband for their daughter, and certainly not a suitable father for her children.
You will see how it is turning out as they live their lives and raise their
family.
As a matter of fact, marriage and children
are major themes of this book. Bruce Gardner, blind and preparing to be a lawyer,
dates and falls in love with a young sighted woman. She has questions, and so
do her father and mother.
And there is the matter of blind parents
and sighted children. As the boy and girl grow up, how do they feel? Do they
think their parents can take care of them--and how do the parents feel? What
ambitions do the parents have for their children?
There is another theme relative to children
(blind children). Many are not given the chance to learn Braille. What does
that do to them, and how do they feel about it as they come to adulthood?
There is more--the article I wrote about
the difference between the sounds and smells of today and sixty years ago; and
there is the story about a blind kitten (told by the owner, of course, not the
kitten); an account of a blind woman's experience with pouring coffee; and much
else. But I think I have told you enough to give you an inkling of what to expect.
At the core all of the people represented
here are talking about the same thing. What they are saying is this:
In everything that counts we who are
blind are just like you. As you read, you will recognize yourself in the story
of our experiences. We laugh and cry, work and play, hope and dream, just like
you. And although we don't forget that we are blind, we don't constantly think
about it either. We are concerned with the routine business of daily living--
what we plan to have for dinner, the latest gossip, and the current shenanigans
in Washington.
Around fifty thousand people become blind
in this country each year. That means that it may happen to you, a member of
your family, a neighbor, or a friend. So we want you to know what blindness
is like--and, more to the point, what it isn't like. That is why we are producing
the Kernel Books. We hope you will find this volume both informative and interesting.
If you do, we will have accomplished our purpose. We want to live in harmony
with our neighbors--not the way most people think cats and dogs live.
Kenneth Jernigan
Baltimore, Maryland 1997
That is the introduction. Now here are
excerpts from my article called "The Sounds and Smells of Sixty Years":
Everybody knows that change is probably
the only constant in life, but I think we don't fully understand what that means
until after we are fifty. At least that is how it has been with me.
As readers of the Kernel Books know,
I grew up on a farm in Tennessee in the 1920's and '30's, and it seems to me
that almost nothing today is the way it was then. Since I have been blind all
of my life, I am not talking about how things look but how they smell, taste,
sound, and feel.
Start with smell. The world smells different
today from what it did then. Nowadays I spend much of my time indoors, breathing
conditioned air, whether heated or cooled. But that wasn't how it was when I
was a boy.
Since we didn't have electricity, we
couldn't have had air conditioning even if we could have afforded it. So in
the summer the windows were open, and usually so were the doors. The air was
rich with odors--the smells of growing things, of the barnyard, of the dust
and gasoline from an occasional passing car, and of creeks. These were the smells
of summer, but there were also the smells of winter--wood, burning in a fireplace,
the smell of the unheated portions of the house, and the smell of the country
in winter.
And it was not just the smells of that
time but also the sounds--the mixture of stillness, bird songs, distant cattle,
and the aliveness of the land. Today, whether indoors or out, one thing is always
present--the sound of motors. There are automobiles, office machines, fluorescent
lights, power tools, lawn mowers, vacuum cleaners, kitchen appliances, air conditioners,
and heating units. When I was a boy, I might go a whole week without hearing
a motor--but not today. In the world of the '90's there is never a minute without
a motor. Sometimes it is an avalanche of noise, and sometimes only a vibration
in the background--but it is always there--always a motor.
And I mustn't omit taste and touch. At
first thought it might seem that there would be no difference between then and
now, but there is. It isn't necessarily that I can't touch most of the things
today that I touched in the 1930's. It is just that I don't. And as to taste,
it may simply be my imagination or my aging taste buds, but it certainly doesn't
seem that way. Food is prepared differently, and the ingredients take a different
path from origin to table.
But what does all of that have to do
with blindness? After all, that is what this book is about. Certainly blindness
and blind people are not treated today the way they were sixty years ago. The
blind of that generation had almost no chance to get a job and very little chance
to get an education.
In my case (many of you know this story
as well as I do, so you can judge for yourselves whether it fits our purpose
in the Kernel Books), I was allowed to go to college, but I wasn't permitted
to take the course of study I wanted. I attended elementary and high school
at the Tennessee School for the Blind in Nashville, graduating in 1945. One
day in the spring of my senior year, a state rehabilitation counselor came to
talk to me about what I wanted to do and be.
I remember it well. We sat in what was
called the parlor--a room, incidentally, which deserved the name. The School
was housed in an old southern mansion, and the parlor, which was used as a general
reception area, was the very essence of elegance.
The counselor and I sat on the elaborately
carved sofa, and he asked me to tell him two or three areas of study that I
might like to pursue when I went to college. I told him that I didn't need to
pick two or three, that I wanted to be a lawyer.
He said that he wouldn't say that a blind
person couldn't be a lawyer but that he thought it wasn't realistic. I would
not be able to see the faces of the jury, he said, and would not be able to
do the paperwork and the travelling. I argued, but I was only a teenager--and
I didn't have any money.
Ultimately he told me (with big words
and gently, but with absolute finality) that either I could go to college and
study law and pay for it myself, or I could go and prepare to be something else
and be assisted by the rehabilitation agency. Since I was a teenager and didn't
have any money, I went and was something else.
Of course I now know that he was wrong.
I am personally acquainted with hundreds of successfully practicing blind lawyers,
and most of them are not noticeably more competent than I am. But I would not
want to create the wrong impression. This man was not trying to do me harm.
Quite the contrary. He truly believed that what he was doing was in my best
interest. He was trying to help me. He was acting in the spirit of the times
and doing the best he knew.
Today it wouldn't happen that way. Many
things have made the difference, but principal among them is the National Federation
of the Blind. Established in 1940 by a handful of blind men and women from seven
states, the Federation has conducted a never-ending campaign to educate the
public and stimulate the blind. I joined the organization in 1949, and it changed
my life.
Today the Federation is the strongest
and most constructive force in the affairs of the blind of this country, but
its work is by no means finished. The job that still has to be done is not so
much a matter of legislation or government assistance as of handling the interactions
of daily life. We have come a long way in public acceptance, but sometimes the
attitudes of sixty years ago are still with us.
Let me illustrate by what at first may
seem to be trivial examples. (Again, some of you are familiar with the details
surrounding the story I am about to tell, so you can judge whether it meets
our test of suitability for the Kernel Books.) Over fifty years ago, when I
was a boy on the farm in Tennessee, I often found time heavy on my hands during
the summer months when I was not in school. To relieve the tedium, I would sometimes
ride with a truck driver, who collected milk from the local farmers to take
to a nearby cheese factory.
The days were hot, and when we could
afford it, we sometimes bought a bottle of Coca-Cola. (Incidentally, it cost
five cents.) I didn't have much money, but now and again I had a little, and
I wanted to pay my share. One day I said to the driver (a young fellow about
twenty), "I'll buy a Coke for each of us."
"Okay," he said, "stay
here. I'll go in and get it."
"No," I said. "I'll go
with you."
He was obviously uncomfortable and didn't
want me to do it. Finally he said, "I can't do that. How would it look
if people saw a blind person buying me a Coke?"
I was a teenager, not yet accustomed
to the ways of diplomacy. So I told him in blunt terms that either I would buy
the Coke publicly or I wouldn't buy it at all. After greed and pride had fought
their battle, he decided not to have it, and we drove on--after which I was
not welcome in the truck.
But that was more than fifty years ago.
It couldn't happen today. Or could it? Well, let me tell you about an incident
that occurred less than six months ago. My wife and I were entering a restaurant--an
upscale, classy place with plenty of glitter and lots of manners.
It so fell out that another couple and
we reached the door almost simultaneously. I happened to be positioned so that
it was natural for me to open the door and hold it while the other couple entered,
but the man was obviously ill at ease. He insisted that he hold the door and
that my wife and I go first. Since I already had my hand on the door and was
holding it open and since I was not in the mood to be treated like a child or
an inferior, I dug in my mental heels and stayed put. It was all done on both
sides with great politeness and courtly manners, but it was done. As I continued
to hold the door, the other couple preceded us into the restaurant. But the
man was obviously uncomfortable, showing by his comments and demeanor that he
felt it was inappropriate for a blind person to hold a door for him and behave
like an equal.
Trivial? Not related to the daily lives
and economic problems of the blind? Not a factor in determining whether blind
people can hold jobs or make money? Don't you believe it! These incidents (the
one fifty years ago and the one this year) typify and symbolize everything that
we are working to achieve.
But again I must emphasize that we are
not talking about people who are trying to cause us harm. We are talking about
people who, almost without exception, wish us well and want to be of help. Our
job is not one of force but of giving people facts.
And key to it all is the National Federation
of the Blind--blind persons coming together in local, state, and national meetings
to encourage each other and inform the public. Sometimes we are tempted to believe
that our progress is slow, but in reality it has been amazingly rapid. We have
made more advances during the past sixty years than in all previously recorded
history. And there are better days ahead.
It is true that the smells, sounds, touch,
and taste of today are not what they were sixty years ago--but it is equally
true that, despite occasional nostalgia, we wouldn't want them to be. We wouldn't
because today is better--and not just in physical things but also in the patterns
of opportunity and possibility. I say this despite all of the problems that
face our country and our society. We who are blind look to the future with hope,
and those who are sighted are helping us make that hope a reality.
That is my article for the first of this
year's Kernel Books. Here are the introduction and the article for the second:
Kenneth Jernigan
delivers the
banquet address as the audience listens attentively.]
Wall-To-Wall Thanksgiving
Editor's Introduction
Most American holidays have a double
significance--what they are and what they imply. New Year's Day, for instance,
means just that, the beginning of another year. But it also means reviewing
the past, planning for the future, and hoping to do better.
The Fourth of July commemorates the establishment
of the nation. But over the years it has picked up a whole host of other meanings--everything
from summer picnics and fireworks to how we should live and the current state
of American values.
And then there is Thanksgiving--and also
the present Kernel Book, the thirteenth in the series. When we started publishing
the Kernel Books almost seven years ago, we didn't know how successful they
would be, but our goal was to reach as many people as possible with true-life
first-person stories told by blind persons themselves--how we raise children,
hunt jobs, engage in courtship, get an education, go to church, cook a meal,
meet friends, and do all of the other things that make up daily living.
And we wanted to do it in such a way
that the average member of the sighted public would read and be interested.
The results have been better than we could possibly have hoped. More than three
million of the Kernel Books are now in circulation, and I rarely travel anywhere
in the country without being approached by somebody who has read them and wants
to talk about them or ask questions.
As to the present volume, Wall-to-Wall
Thanksgiving, it is much like what has gone before. It tells about blind
people as they live and work.
What does a blind boy do to earn summer
spending money, and what do his sighted parents expect of him? What of the Viet
Nam veteran who loses his sight in the war and comes home to build a new life?
And what about the self-conscious youngster and young man with a little sight,
who is ashamed of blindness and yet has to live with it?
What of the small details that come together
to make the days that form the years--learning to ride a bicycle, cook a steak,
read a book, get a job? This is what Wall-to-Wall Thanksgiving is about.
I know the people who appear in its pages. They are friends of mine. Some have
been my students. All of them are fellow participants in the work of the National
Federation of the Blind.
If you wonder why so many of us give
our time and effort to the Federation, it is because the Federation has played
such an important part in making life better for us. In fact, the National Federation
of the Blind has done more than any other single thing to improve the quality
of life for blind persons in the twentieth century. It is blind persons coming
together to help each other and do for themselves. That doesn't mean that we
don't want or need help from our sighted friends and associates, for we do.
But it does mean that we think we should try to help ourselves before we ask
others for assistance. And we should also give as well as take. All of this
is what the National Federation of the Blind stands for and means.
I have edited the Kernel Books from the
beginning, and I have contributed a story to each of them. My present offering
deals with help I have received from sighted people. Sometimes my reactions
have been appropriate and mature; sometimes not. As you read, you will see that
my views have changed as I have grown older. Perhaps my article, "Don't
Throw the Nickel," sums it up.
As to the title of this thirteenth volume
in the Kernel Book series, Wall-to-Wall Thanksgiving, it is taken from
the story of the same name by Barbara Pierce. But like the various holidays,
it has more than a single meaning. With all of the difficulties we have had
and with all of the problems we still face, we who are blind have more reason
for thanksgiving now than ever before in history.
Unlike many in today's society, we do
not think of ourselves as victims. We feel that our future is bright with promise.
That is so because we intend to work to make it that way, and because more and
more sighted people are joining our cause and helping us.
I hope you will enjoy this book and that
it will give you worthwhile information.
Kenneth Jernigan
Baltimore, Maryland, 1997
That is the introduction. Now for the
article. As I have already said, it is called "Don't Throw the Nickel."
When is it appropriate for a blind person
to accept help from a sighted person, and when is it not? If the offer is rejected,
how can it be done without causing embarrassment or hurt feelings? Since most
sighted people are well-disposed toward the blind, these are very real questions--questions
that I as a blind person have faced all of my life. As you might imagine, my
answers have changed as I have grown older and gained experience.
When I was a teenager, filled with the
typical self-consciousness of adolescence, I frequently rode city buses. This
was in Nashville. The school for the blind, where I was a student, was located
on the edge of the city, and I liked to go downtown. Incidentally, in those
days a bus ride cost a nickel, as did a lot of other things--a hamburger, a
Coca-Cola, an order of French fries, a full-size candy bar, a double-dip of
ice cream, and much else.
One day I was standing on the corner
waiting for a bus when an elderly woman approached me and said, "Here,
son, I'll help you." She then put a nickel into my hand.
I could tell that she was elderly because
of her voice. There was quite a crowd at the bus stop, and I felt acute embarrassment.
I tried to give the nickel back, but she moved out of my way and kept saying,
"No, that's all right."
Everybody stopped talking, and my frustration
mounted. Each time I stepped toward her to try to give back the nickel, she
moved out of the way. It must have been quite a spectacle, me with my hand extended
holding the nickel, and the woman weaving and dodging to avoid me. Finally,
in absolute exasperation, I threw the nickel as far as I could down the street.
That was over fifty years ago, but the
memory is still clear. Once the woman had placed the nickel in my hand, there
was really no way I could have given it back. If I had simply and quietly accepted
it and thanked her, very little notice would have been taken. As it was, I created
quite a show. The elderly woman, who was only trying to help me, was undoubtedly
embarrassed, and I did little to improve the image of blindness. Instead I did
the exact opposite.
Ten years later, when I was in my twenties,
I was teaching at the California training center for the blind in the San Francisco
Bay area. One of my principal duties was to help newly blind persons learn how
to deal maturely with loss of sight and the attitudes of the public about blindness.
Late one afternoon, after a particularly
hard day, I was leaving the Center to go home. When I came to the corner to
cross the street, an elderly man (he sounded as if he might be in his eighties)
approached me and said, "I'll help you across the street." "No,
thanks," I said. "I can make it just fine." I was polite but
firm.
"I'll help you," he repeated,
and took my arm. As I have already said, it had been a hard day. I made no discourteous
response, but I speeded up my pace as we crossed the street.
Clearly the man could not keep up, and
if I am to be honest, I knew that he couldn't. He released my arm and said with
a hurt tone, "I was only trying to help."
When I got to the other side of the street,
I came to a complete stop and said to myself, "Are you really so insecure
about your blindness that, even if it has been a hard day, you can't afford
to be kind to somebody who was only trying to help you?"
As with the nickel-throwing incident,
there was a lesson to be learned. I should have accepted the man's offer of
help and should have done it graciously. We would both have profited, each feeling
that he had done the other a kindness. As it was, both of us experienced pain,
even if only a little and even if only temporarily.
By the time another ten years had passed,
I was in my thirties and directing programs for the blind in the state of Iowa.
My job required me to do a great deal of traveling, and one day when I was checking
into a hotel, a bellman carried my bag to my room. As he was leaving, I gave
him a tip.
"Oh, no," he said, "I
couldn't take a tip from you. I'm a Christian."
Unlike what I did in the other situations
I have described, I did not refuse or resist. I simply thanked him and let it
go at that. Of course I might have tried to get him to change his mind, but
I didn't think it would be productive. And besides I didn't feel so insecure
or unsure of myself that I needed to prove either to him or me that I was equal.
So far I have talked about help that
has been courteously offered and probably should have been accepted. But what
about the other kind? Blind people don't have a monopoly on rudeness or bad
manners. Sighted people are human, too.
I think of a time when I was standing
on a street corner in Des Moines, minding my own business and waiting for a
friend. A big husky fellow with the momentum of a freight train came along and
scooped me up without ever even pausing. "Come on, buddy," he said,
as he grabbed my arm, "I'll help you across the street."
As it so happened, I didn't want to cross
that street. I was going in another direction. But he didn't ask. And he wouldn't
listen when I tried to tell him. He just kept walking and dragging me with him.
In the circumstances I planted my feet
and resisted--and I should have. All of us, whether blind or sighted, owe courtesy
and consideration to each other, but in this case I was being treated like a
none too intelligent child. No, worse than that--for children are rarely manhandled
in public.
Not long ago I entered an elevator, and
a man standing next to me reached out and placed his hand on my arm, between
me and the elevator door, in a protective manner. He probably felt that I might
lean into the door as it was closing or that I might have difficulty when the
door opened. It was a sheltering gesture, totally inappropriate but meant to
be helpful. He would have been shocked at the thought of behaving that way toward
a sighted adult passenger, but in my case he saw no impropriety.
When the door opened, he restrained me
with his hand and said, "Wait. You can't go yet." Since I was standing
immediately next to the door and since there was no traffic outside, it is hard
to know why he felt I should wait. Maybe he thought I should take a moment to
get my bearings, or maybe it was simply more of the protectiveness. Who knows?
He treated me very much as he would have
treated a small child. How should I have reacted? It all depends on how insistent
and how obtrusive he was. There is something to be said for restraint and not
hurting other people's feelings, but there is also something to be said for
recognizing when enough is enough.
In what I am about to say next, I am
not just talking about persons who are totally blind but also about those who
now see so poorly that they cannot function the way a sighted person normally
does--persons who may be losing sight and who may be having trouble accepting
it. I am also speaking to relatives.
As I have indicated, most blind people
appreciate help when it is offered. When a blind person is walking through a
crowd or down the street with somebody else and trying to carry on a conversation,
it is easier to take the other person's arm. This is true even if the blind
person is quite capable of traveling alone.
All of us like to do things for ourselves,
but there are times when refusing to take an arm that is offered constitutes
the very opposite of independence for a blind person. If, for instance, a blind
person is walking with a sighted person through a crowded restaurant, the sensible
thing to do is to take the sighted person's arm and go to the table without
fuss or bother.
As you can tell, my views about independence
and help from others have changed over the years. Probably the single most important
factor in helping me come to my present notions has been the National Federation
of the Blind. Having chapters in every state and almost every community of any
size, the Federation is the nation's oldest and largest organization of blind
persons.
As it is with me, so it is with thousands
of other blind people throughout the country. We work together to help each
other and ourselves. We give assistance to parents of blind children, to blind
college students, to the newly blind, to the senior blind, and to blind persons
who are trying to find employment. Above all, the Federation teaches a new way
of thought about blindness. We want to take the mystery out of blindness. Mostly
we who are blind are very much like you.
This is the message of the National Federation
of the Blind, and it has made a great difference in my life. If I had to sum
up my personal philosophy in a single sentence, it would probably be this: Do
all you can to help yourself before you call on somebody else; try to make life
better for those around you; and don't throw nickels.
There you have excerpts from the two
Kernel Books for 1997. I believe our efforts at self-improvement and public
education will be advanced by these books and that we will go the rest of the
way to full participation and first-class status in society. While I am talking
about the future, let me say something else. I never come into one of our convention
sessions without feeling a lift of spirit and a surge of joy, for I know to
the depths of my being that our shared bond of love and trust will never change,
and that because of it we will be unswervable in our determination and unstoppable
in our progress.
Through our public service announcements
on radio and television, through newspaper articles and personal contacts, through
gatherings like this, through our mail programs, through our publications, through
public speaking engagements, through meetings with government officials and
corporate leaders, and especially through our Kernel Books, we are telling our
story--and we are doing it in our own way and with our own voice. The day after
civil rights is fast approaching, and we will meet it as we have met every other
challenge we have ever faced--joyously, actively, and triumphantly. My brothers
and my sisters, we are truly changing what it means to be blind--and the Kernel
Books are helping us do it.
Pooled Income Gifts
In this plan money donated to the National
Federation of the Blind by a number of individuals is invested by the NFB. Each
donor and the NFB sign an agreement that income from the funds will be paid
to the donor quarterly or annually. Each donor receives a tax deduction for
the gift; the NFB receives a useful donation; and the donor receives income
of a specified amount for the rest of his or her life. For more information
about the NFB pooled income fund, contact the National Federation of the Blind,
Special Gifts, 1800 Johnson Street, Baltimore, Maryland 21230-4998, phone (410)
659-9314, fax (410) 685-5653.
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